Episode 1

The One About Choosing Yourself

Are you going through life being more than a little co-dependent? Being a people pleaser? A martyr? Always putting others first?

Join the club. I’ve spent most of my life making those same choices.

Sometimes these choices come from need. Sometimes they’re incredibly useful and resourceful strategies, at moments when your safety depends on them. But that doesn’t mean you need to stick with those same self-limiting decisions forever.

As I’ve matured and my circumstances have changed - as I’ve built a life and a business that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside - I have really focused on my values. Value filtered living is where it’s at!

In this week’s episode, I’m looking at why choosing yourself is the key to becoming a truly kickass and kind human.

Listen on for:

  • The disservice you’re currently doing to yourself (and your audience) and what you can do about it.
  • The impact that choosing myself has had on my business and what I offer the world.
  • My wild intentions for this year… and how you can help me achieve them!
  • Journaling prompts to help you define what choosing yourself really means for you, and figure out how to take action on that.

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About the Podcast

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About your host

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Ebonie Allard

I'm Ebonie Allard -Founder of Misfit for Life and Head Coach. I'm a Certified & award winning Master Coach. I am the creator of the 'Misfit to Maven Way' and the 'Value Filter™' system.

I'm a Misfit turned Maven. An Adventurer of life. An Author. An Artist. A Priestess. A Sister. A Friend...

As a teacher, healer and master coach I am passionate about facilitating you in self-actualisation.

I specialise in creating the conditions in which you trust yourself and listen to the inherent wisdom you have within.

I help creative heart-led misfits like you to simplify their lives, and eliminate guilt, shame and fear; allowing you to live your greatest potential and be bolder, freer and happier now!

I know that you crave work that's fulfilling, connected intimate relationships, and time to explore, indulge and express your creativity and authentic expression.

It is my mission to help you live a fully rounded three dimensional, successful and self-governed life.

At my core, I believe that it is your responsibility to shine, to bring your gifts to the world, and to encourage others to do the same.