Episode 10

The One About Mothering the Fuck Up

In this episode, you will hear all about what it means to be a true REBEL MOTHER. Be guided by the great cosmic force of Sophie, as she discusses Mother healing work within herself and the women that she supports. Her calling is to help women remember our powers in intimacy, igniting our cosmic ecstasy for life. 

If you have ever felt that you are stuck in a box and uninspired by life, then this is the episode for you. Join us, as we make some amazing female magic happen, and ignite the passion within all of us to go and create what our hearts desire.

Listen on for:

  • Allowing the journey of motherhood to be a gift and not a burden.
  • Going back into the womb to gain an understanding of the people we have become and where this stems from. 
  • Parenting, and what we take into adulthood from our parents and grandparents.
  • Art, how it can be a way to express our true self and unleash the rebel inside.
  • Making sense of the patterns that we have created in our lives. 
  • Being free of the boxes that we have put ourselves in to feel safe. 
  • Being free to speak out and say what really matters to you.


About Sophie

Sophie has been quietly causing rebellion since 1982. A spontaneous conception. An accident. I was born to disrupt. A confessional artist. I meet my truth to the extremes. Art has been Sophie's medicine. Sophie's creativity, love for life and non-academic philosophy liberate souls from inner tyranny.

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About your host

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Ebonie Allard

I'm Ebonie Allard -Founder of Misfit for Life and Head Coach. I'm a Certified & award winning Master Coach. I am the creator of the 'Misfit to Maven Way' and the 'Value Filterâ„¢' system.

I'm a Misfit turned Maven. An Adventurer of life. An Author. An Artist. A Priestess. A Sister. A Friend...

As a teacher, healer and master coach I am passionate about facilitating you in self-actualisation.

I specialise in creating the conditions in which you trust yourself and listen to the inherent wisdom you have within.

I help creative heart-led misfits like you to simplify their lives, and eliminate guilt, shame and fear; allowing you to live your greatest potential and be bolder, freer and happier now!

I know that you crave work that's fulfilling, connected intimate relationships, and time to explore, indulge and express your creativity and authentic expression.

It is my mission to help you live a fully rounded three dimensional, successful and self-governed life.

At my core, I believe that it is your responsibility to shine, to bring your gifts to the world, and to encourage others to do the same.